And also ask if you can record the appointment, to go over it later on. I've done that with some of mine. I've only gone back over the one - and it i amazing what you 'miss' whilst sitting in the chair, looking at them!! Just a recording app on your phone will be good enough
As @Zoffiel says - some Oncs can be a nightmare! My husband's onc was a shocker. No personality, almost impossible to get information out of - and my initial Onc was similar! Very brusk & not really interested. I felt like he considered my condition 'not worthy' of his attention!!
Yep - stay away from Dr Google - it only confuses.
All the best for your next meeting with your better half xx