@kmakm thanks for your kimd words, and thanks for bringing up the finances side of it. To be honest we are so keen to move that we havent yet considered the money, but its going to come up. How does mixing and matching actually work?
We live in Brisbane. I spent three years working at the Royal Brisbane and Women's Hospital (non clinical). She has spent her professional career in allied health, as a lymphodema specialist Physiotherapist.
I know the hospital and I have spent more time in more parts of the hospitals across Southeast Queensland than most, but I dont know anything about the human body.
Not particularly relevant, but it is kind of ironic.
Anyway. We have supportive family and friends. We are strong and we are young.