@GavinCh may be able to offer some advice from a partner's perspective.
Thank you so much for coming on here to find support for you both. Already you've been hit with so much in such a short time.
Know that we will all be here to offer whatever support we can, as you both navigate the weeks and months to come.
Don't forget that you will need support, too. Yes, it's mostly about your wife at this stage, but if you don't also look after yourself physically and emotionally, you maynot be able to be what she needs.
Take care, both of you