Be kind to yourself. As a woman who can put on weight, I was concerned but one of my care team told me not be hard on myself and that once I am through the chemotherapy and radiation I can attend more to weight if I gain. I will be on hormone blockers 5-7 years and imagine that I will need to improve my activity levels and eat very well. I am visualising starting a new chapter. It is all I can do....I will make more time for myself and try to be moderate, but it may be that right now, you need to just be kind to yourself, Ferrero Rocher and all. This is a long term recovery we are engaged in so there will be chapters. As women we are way too hard on ourselves. xxxx