@arpie thanks my friend!! yes, looks like we will be a week apart with our rad treatment & we will both be staying away from home. I will be busy on the weekend packing!! My sister is looking forward to having me & hopefully I won't out stay my welcome!! Looking forward to catching up with my family & especially my nieces, nephews & 2 cutie great nieces!! Lots of cuddle time ahead! This forum is great & has helped me more than all the books I have read. This is the only support group I have as I have chosen not to go to one in my town as only a couple of people know I have had cancer & i want it to stay that way. I live in a very small town & everyone knows me so it is nice just to go up the street shopping & not have everyone asking me questions or avoiding me as they don't know what to say. This website has been a blessing! Hugs xx