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gilliann
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13 years ago

Lumpectomy OP On Tues

Hi all,

Just been diagnosed a few weeks ago, still in shock to be honest. I'm 29 and have only been married for 8 weeks. Last thing I was expecting but they say the 1st year of marriage is the most difficult, didnt think it would mean this though.

I'm really fortunate that I have a wonderful husband and friends. Does anyone feel though that they have to put on a brave face for everyone though?

I hate seeing my loved one upset so I've just brushed it off and make a joke of things but inside I'm angry, pissed off and frightened. I feel like a little kid and want to jump up and and have a temper tantram and stomp my feet, whislt shouting "it's not fair".

Then I give myself a little pep talk and I feel like I can take on the world. :)

I have my Lumpectomy op on Tues and I will radio and chemotherepy.

I'm also going through the process of harvesting embryos as I would like to have children in the future.  Has anyone else went through this process? Love to hear from you. x

 

 

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