Life after treatment
Hi all I thought I'd start a new thread as I've been reading through the
post on After effects from treatment. I love all of your replies they
give me comfort, relief and validation. I didn't want ...
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Lisha, your Husband sounds very disconnected, sometimes it's lack of being able to be emotional. My husband was great at alot of things too, but emotionally devoid. He is a good man, a good Father. When my Mum died suddenly 8yrs ago, after a couple of weeks he caught me crying in the shower as I had no time to grieve being everything for everyone else. He asked what was wrong and I said sobbing that I'm grieving, which he hadnt seen me do. He turned around and walked out, that was it. I'm glad I wasn't there through my 2 bouts of Breast Cancer in the last 6yrs, whilst its been a hard road alone, it was far better than dealing with him too, he gave me nothing on an emotional level, he just didn't know how. To me it's about connection and disconnection...only connecting will he try to understand. I'm really sorry to hear he's like that, when you need the opposite. Hugs Melinda xo