Kerri
I can't believe girls at your daughter's school are giving her a hard time! Hopefully her friends are being supportive. Is there a school counsellor or student welfare teacher you or your daughter (or both!) could talk to? It's so hard.
My youngest daughter is more sensitive than the other so I did share differently with them. I tried to more cheery and positive with her. We talked a lot about what her concerns were so I could reassure her I was ok. It also helped her seeing me look well (even when not feeling it) and being proactive with my diet and now exercise. Took a good 3 months to get energy back after chemo. I'm only just starting to get hair again too.
It's a long road. I'm sorry you're doing it tough. Keep on talking with your daughter. Good luck!
Diane