Seeing the Oncologist was my reality check! 1st Cry came as a shock!
Hi All,
Saw the Oncologist on Thursday, and I was shocked about how it was a reality check for me.
The lumpectomy and waiting for the pathology results I think were easier. My Dr is lovely and supportive but going through the details was hard. Hearing survival stats and chances of complications with chemo just made me weak at the knees.
I left feeling like I had been given a big burden to carry.
Up until this point I had been very positive, no crying or carry on, just more, ah well let's get on with it!
I decided to have a port inserted and had the referral the next day. Decided that my husband did not need to go to this appointment with me as I would be going straight to work afterwards. This conversation about veins, jugular vein, bleeding made me feel nauseous. I was so bad I called my sister inlaw, a vet, to ensure viens can be stitched up to stop bleeding. Today I think I have my head around it, decided to take it on an a challenge and afterwards I will feel empowered! Surgery is tomorrow for the port.
So decided had to cut my hair shorter, chemo coming Thursday and husband heard from Dr it is a good idea so all good to go! Had goal of going to the shops on Sat morning but instead cleaned the house! So Sat afternoon slowlymade my way over. As going up the escalator ramp realised I was getting upset. Walked slowly in the direction of the hairdresser then saw a special on handbags! Had to buy one! (More like waste time) $50 handbag now ready for hair dresser! Walked in fine, hair washed, then the lovely girl asked me what did I want done to my hair, next 10 minutes I blubbered away! 1st cry! Over cutting my hair! Couldn't have it cut as short as I probably should have but it does not look to bad. Watch out husband I could be converted to short hair!
I realise now the crying was not just for my hair, its the build up of it all but now I feel my emotions are a bit more raw and closer to the surface. I understand it's ok to feel sad, angry etc but my positive thinking kicks in reminding me this is just going to be a rough 6 months and then life will back to some sort of normal.
Have a great week ladies, may your challenges make you feel empowered!
Vx