Processing the journey
Moderator moved @Tania_G post from activity section to 'General Discussion' section: Hi everyone, Was diagnosed back in July 2023 stage 3 HER2+ breast cancer. Have done two rounds of chemo. Had...
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I can relate to your situation, Afraser, and I found your comments reassuring. I am 64, and I believe that 'my breast cancer' is age-related. Therefore, I am not overly concerned about physical appearance, as there are many other health issues that I might experience as part of aging, and breast cancer as a systemic disease that requires systemic treatment. By the way, these physical appearances can be managed with wigs, scarves, prostheses, implants, clothing, make up and the list goes on. The only way for me to navigate aging and age-related illnesses and conditions is through a 'positive aging approach.' This means looking after my health through regular check-ups, medication, and treatments, trusting in medical teams, and staying mentally and physically active. I trust the Australian public health system. So far, I have been very well looked after. I am also not depressed but very much anxious about what is ahead. Not everything can be controlled. I will definitely be looking into counseling. I cannot comment or give advice to younger women, especially those with small kids who still need help from their mom. By sharing our stories and views, I believe we support each other. I definitely feel supported through this network and BCNA.