"Its up to you!!! "
I am soooo tired of hearing "Its up to you!" I turn to the brains trust here to give me constructive advice about a problem that I have to ( or want to is nearer the truth) address. I have been th...
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Kmakm Yes just flat chested....haven't considered any sort of reconstruction at all. Once the scars have settled down the track I will see if any adjustment is necessary but seriously who is going to see them except me..:)
Thanks Alljay I love your analogy and makes perfect sense.
Thanks Glemmis and Brightspace for your input. I should have added its not an immediate decision ...I see surgeon late May again, so I have a few months to think it over. I have been saying right from the start ...the other one is gone but some negativity from those around me was starting to creep in and I started doubting my decision.
To be perfectly honest it isn't the surgery now or in the future that bothers me .....its the bloody mammograms!!!! I had one 25 years ago when the right breast lump was found....the B****ch of a technician walked out to do the picture and didn't come back for about 10 mins. ..seriously!! (I watched the wall clock! ) I was clamped tight because she got distracted elsewhere. I never had another one until I was literally nagged into it over a 3 month period by my GP....(there were no symptoms ..ie lump or tenderness ) So I am considering the surgery option because I hate lopside, it is a now useless appendage and I hate, loathe and detest mammograms due to bad experience. :D
I so appreciate your input and thank you for answering me. <3 <3 <3
Thanks Alljay I love your analogy and makes perfect sense.
Thanks Glemmis and Brightspace for your input. I should have added its not an immediate decision ...I see surgeon late May again, so I have a few months to think it over. I have been saying right from the start ...the other one is gone but some negativity from those around me was starting to creep in and I started doubting my decision.
To be perfectly honest it isn't the surgery now or in the future that bothers me .....its the bloody mammograms!!!! I had one 25 years ago when the right breast lump was found....the B****ch of a technician walked out to do the picture and didn't come back for about 10 mins. ..seriously!! (I watched the wall clock! ) I was clamped tight because she got distracted elsewhere. I never had another one until I was literally nagged into it over a 3 month period by my GP....(there were no symptoms ..ie lump or tenderness ) So I am considering the surgery option because I hate lopside, it is a now useless appendage and I hate, loathe and detest mammograms due to bad experience. :D
I so appreciate your input and thank you for answering me. <3 <3 <3