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Mells
12 years agoMember
Baby after breast cancer
Hi Ladies,
I was diagnosed with TNBC in April. I have had a lumpectomy & nodes removed from my right arm. I have 4 weeks left of chemo, then 6 weeks of rads straight after & waiting on genetic testing.
Has anyone out there had a baby after treatment?
If so was there a wait period? I've tried talking to my surgeon & he just says its up to me.
I'm feeling really confused, I really want another baby, but is it silly & selfish as I could have a recurrence?
Thanks
Mells
30 Replies
- MellsMemberThat's fantastic!! Gives all of us hope!! Xx
- MellsMemberThat's fantastic!! Gives all of us hope!! Xx
- KirboxxMemberThat's awesome! Gives me hope. Did you conceive naturally or with fertility treatment?
- mum2chloeMemberHi, Just wanted to share, my husband and I had a baby girl post chemo, I stopped tamoxifen after the 2.5 yr mark to try and conceive. First pregnancy was a miscarriage at 14wks gs 5mths later our 2nd pregnancy was an ectopic and I lost one of my tubes as it ruptured. Gave up all hope and got careless, 2mths later we were pregnant with our third and final attempt, ecstatic, scared, worried, anxious, happy, etc. we had our baby girl Chloe full term, all fingers and toes, completely healthy.
- Kaz21lMemberHey Mells, My main tumor is ER/PR- (her2+) and because its hormone neg, my Onc is happy for to try for child once I finish Herceptin. (Aug next yr) (I have a 8mm hormone positive one too but she is not concerned about that) I'll be 39 n have no children (we have embryos from Ivf). If your BC was hormone pos it's a different story with waits normal advised 2-5yrs. All the best Karen
- Kaz21lMemberHey Mells, My main tumor is ER/PR- (her2+) and because its hormone neg, my Onc is happy for to try for child once I finish Herceptin. (Aug next yr) (I have a 8mm hormone positive one too but she is not concerned about that) I'll be 39 n have no children (we have embryos from Ivf). If your BC was hormone pos it's a different story with waits normal advised 2-5yrs. All the best Karen
- MellsMemberThanks Ronni70, My story very similar to you. It took us a while to get pregnant, and same got a lump while breast feeding & bang cancer! But I always think it could've been worse at least I found it! Now I'm just trying to think & plan for the future! Goodluck with everything xx
- MellsMemberThanks Ronni70, My story very similar to you. It took us a while to get pregnant, and same got a lump while breast feeding & bang cancer! But I always think it could've been worse at least I found it! Now I'm just trying to think & plan for the future! Goodluck with everything xx
- Ronni70MemberI was diagnosed while breast feeding my daughter. I am tnbc. I have had an uphill battle, as all of us have. I tried for years to become pregnant with my daughter. Finally i fell pregnant and got cancer. Who knows what lies ahead. Falling pregnant is sometimes a crap shoot. Cancer or no cancer. My thoughts are keep trying but don't let it engulf you. There is always something positive to be taken from all of this. Granted, some days I can't see it....but, we are breathing air and living life. That is always something to be thankful for. The rest is icing!
- MellsMemberThanks Sillysam83, I will look up the group on Facebook! And good luck with everything xx