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Enaid
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5 years ago

Metastatic Breast Cancer found just by accident

Hi,
I’m 58 years old & was in pretty good health when I sustained a massive bruise after just a small amount of pressure in my pelvic area.  I showed a friend (nurse) who told me to go to the doctor sooner rather than later.  From there my journey began.  After ultrasounds, CT scans, MRI’s & about 25 vials of blood it was found I had cancer in my lever. It was only after a biopsy on my liver & mammogram that my breast cancer was diagnosed.  It’s been 8 weeks since that bruise & here I am now trying to come to terms with the diagnosis. I’m off this morning for a biopsy on my breast where a large tumor as become obvious over the past 3 weeks, an Echo after that then a PET scan on Wednesday.   My chemo & cocktail will start in a week or so. My family & friends a very, very supportive but everyone has a story to tell & not all of them positive.  I hope & pray I can keep up the strength I know I’m going to need to continue on the emotional rollercoaster I’ve found myself on.  

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  • Advice I received from a Counsellor on day of diagnosis was to appoint someone as the gatekeeper, in my case Hubby, so that circle of friends and family and unrelenting stories are controlled.  Sometimes we just don't need to know how Mrs What's-her-name from down the street had the same as you but in actual fact didn't!
    We are all different in how we react to treatment and hopefully you are in the category of someone who can sail through with very few side effects!
    It's a so and so but I am sure once all the biopsies are complete and a plan in place you will feel like you are having a little more control on where you are at
    Best wishes and take care

    BTW the website is full of lots of information to guide you, here's a couple of links to help you along

    Fact sheet: Breast cancer pathology | Breast Cancer Network Australia (bcna.org.au)

    Types of breast cancer (bcna.org.au)
  • It’s an awful ride. Your  whole world up ended in a heartbeat. Sending best wishes and some comfort that we have world class breast cancer treatments in this country. Xx
  • @Enaid   And just like that your life is turned upside down. :(  
    I'm sending you hugs and positive thoughts.