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StarGirl
6 years agoMember
What is up with the bell???
Okay, so it took me four years to notice the damn thing, but now I can’t unsee the bell. And I wonder who on Earth thought that was a good idea??? Just putting it out there that I am irrationally annoyed by that stupid bell. Is it just me??
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- KarynJMemberThank you @Nefertari . That is very kind of you. :)
- NefertariMember@KarynJ, well belated congratulations on finishing your treatment <3 I am so sorry that it was such a lonely experience for you, that is tough. I hope you have some support now.
- KarynJMemberThere was a bell where I had my radiation treatment. I was offered the chance to ring it but politely declined. For me it was because my treatment was quite a lonely experience. The staff were lovely but I didn't bond with anyone. I also had no friends family or support person with me to celebrate or acknowledge my achievement. Doing it alone just felt like I was reinforcing my loneliness and I didn't want to draw attention to myself. I just wanted it to be over so I could go home.
- NefertariMember@StarGirl Oh that bell!!
I have heard of it but not sure if my hospital had it or not? I was abruptly stopped due to PN so went out without fanfare after chemo, like @Zoffiel I was happy to get out, missed the staff though.
At my hospital after radiation we put our thumbprint on a canvas in the shape of a tree, what struck me was how many thumbprints there were already. Especially when I learnt they were from only the last eight months, sobering. - jintieMemberI’m sure the bell is a big thing for kids with cancer.
- kezmuscMemberThere was no bell when I was there (fairly new hospital). Doubt whether I would have rung it if it was, still had radiation to go so I didn't really see it as a finish line.
I saw one lady ring the bell on the way out a few weeks later and she scared the beejeesus out of everyone in the waiting room LOL. - arpieMemberI wanted the bell but Port MAC doesn’t do it, so my treatment finished with a whimper instead of a “Yes! I’ve DONE IT!”
- @StarGirl be a rebel and ring that bell! Do it every time you go in for treatment :D
Below is a Christmas song, but you can adapt it and learn the bells if you like :o
https://youtu.be/Qbyy9CJ4t3s - StarGirlMember@kmakm, I think I might now too 😬 @Zoffiel has inspired me. 😱
- kmakmMember*whispers* I quite liked ringing the bell...