Trying to Stay Positive my journey

"You look so well, lost weight" comments from people l may have not seen for a little while. Thank you l say with a beaming smile, they don't know, should I tell them or not, I don't.
   l have stage 4 metastatic breast cancer incurable and aggressive l've been told, the little devils have been having a great road trip partying around my body setting up camp in several spots in my spine, hips skull, lungs, ribs, nodes.
This diagnosis came about totally unexpected after an unrelated ct scan for my nigglying cough. Thank you to my great GP for insisting as I wasn't going to have it only had a slight annoying cough nothing to be concerned about.    Radiologist saw suspicious lung rang spots rang gp, gp rang me and within a week after bone scans biopsies etc l was sitting in the oncologist office "best we can do is try to control this" silly me asked the question as I was still thinking this is nothing to be concerned about, how long if I don't have treatment? "12months" so here I am on the treatment.
My life turned upside down and inside out in May 2018. I am now on letrozole and Kisquali (Ribociclib)  and l am nervously awaiting my scans end of next week to see if this treatment is working. I am usually a happy positive person but seem to have fallen into a bit of a hole at the moment. I find it very hard at times with people telling me you look well, you're an inspiration, bla bla etc etc, when all l want to do is sit in the corner and cry. It's especially frustrating as l've already had bc in 2004, "it's only dcis" treat with radiation but the returned so left side mastectomy/reconstruction 2006, then recurrence right side 2012 "it's only dcis" again radiation and lumpectomy and l can get on with my life and nothing had shown up in my regular breast mammograms
BUT some little party going cancer cells escaped and have been waiting and now have had a great road trip around my body.

I find it really hard to talk to family and friends about how I am really feeling as I worry about how they are coping, so sharing my story here has already made be feel positive again, reading threads of what all the other wonderful ladies are going through is truly inspiring.

I'm trying hard to stay positive for my next appointment with my wonderful Oncologist on 1 Nov and that she will tell me there is no progression.

enough of my rambling thankyou for reading my story

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Lbazz230281
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4 years ago
Stay strong, sending you strength & courage♥️
arpie
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4 years ago
Sending big hugs @Suzi14 xx
iserbrown
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4 years ago
Best wishes for your scan results! Sending positive vibes and a virtual hug ⚘
Cath62
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4 years ago
How brave are you @Suzi14. I reckon do whatever you want including crying. This disease is absolute shit. Treat yourself to anything you want as you deserve that. I am sorry it's been so tough for you. Sending big hugs to you today and for your test results.
FLClover
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4 years ago
I like those vows you make to yourself. I hope you’ve had that cry you mentioned you wanted to have in 2018. It’s hardly being an inspiration if you’re fighting for your life. I don’t think anyone wants to be that kind of inspiration. It’s a tough thing, I hope you haven’t neglected to do special things for yourself. Little treats that make you happy. Treat your soul and spirit, as well as your body.
Let those tears roll. Then give yourself a pat on the back because you have been doing pretty well 💟.
Locksley
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4 years ago
@Suzi14 wanting to send you a hug. Xxx
Suzi14
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4 years ago
Thankyou to this wonderful group. I lve just reread all these comments from 2018 and has made me feel ppsitive again even if l am crying at the moment. So much has happened since then, moved to Vic to be closer to families, then covid. My BC mutated to triple neg, and riboclib no longer working. Now on chemo have had 16 rounds and told on NY eve that it is no longer working, ca markers jumped frpm 72 to 360 in 3 weeks. Where to from here, anxiously waiting results of scans next week, all l can do is make the same vow to myself as last new year and that is to still be here this time next year
Suzi14
Member
4 years ago

primek said:

All of us fear that some of the cancer has escaped. So sad you finally felt less fearful of that only to find out it was sneakily hanging on all that time. So bloody unfair. But on you go girl. You've fought twice now and I know you truly will find the strength to carry on and keep the waters at bay. Kath x
Brenda5
Member
7 years ago
Not much you can do with the hand you have been dealt but accept it and make the most of life. I think meditation alone or in a group would help. Mind can help body and that stupid cancer needs to put a lid on it and let you function hopefully for many years. My old dad at 78 has had cancer for about 20 years. Its mostly in his bones including his skull but hey, he still walks and lives alone. He's a trouper and you can be too. <3
Patti_J
Member
7 years ago
Hi @Suzi14. Hope you are going OK.
I also have mets., diagnosed in July, 2017. They are in my bones from my skull to my pelvis and in my liver. I also had precancerous cells in my lungs.
This is a recurrence after 15 years.
I have had a mastectomy, I.V. chemo., Tamoxifen for five years, breast reconstruction, implants, nipple reconstruction (which I watched the doctor perform), tattooing, replacement of my implants, another nipple reconstruction, more tattooing and needling.
Two and a half weeks ago I started taking Palbociclib and Letrozole after I.V. chemo. and oral chemo. The only side effects so far are hot flushes (again, grrr..) from the Letrozole and the Palbociclib sometimes makes me feel faint or my heart races.
So, I work part-time, do aquarobics, yoga, walk, garden, do my housework and just get on with life.