BelindaM
13 years agoMember
Secondaries
I am dealing with secondaries...I'm not going to lie to you it is shit! planning your own funeral...crap! Telling your kids you won't see them grow up! totally, utterly gut wrenching crap!
Dealing...
Dear Belinda,
We are here for you. And YES! that 'thinking positive' stuff is great in theory for those who aren't going through ths crap. Some of my family have stopped speaking to me, they think 'I'm all better now', but you are experiencing what we all fear the most. I tried to talk to my family about funerals and stuff and they tell me "Don't talk about that sort of thing"............ok, I'll just walk off and whistle like nothing is any different, you know stick my head in the sand. I pray dearly that things pick up for you and remember as I said "We are here for you" Vent your little cotton socks off, it's ok by us - love and hugs from Josie x x x