I'm so very sorry to read about your diagnosis and predicament. It seems like you've had a very rough ride, but I'm glad to read that you have a strong and loving husband who is by your side at this difficult time.
You have definitely come to the right place with your questions. I am unable to answer them but I know someone on this network will have the answers you are looking for.
I just wanted to let you know that your are not alone. Everyone who writes here has walked at least part of your journey in their own lives. Please stay in touch and let us know how you are doing.
Sending strength, hugs and healing energy your way.
xxx
Jeanine