Hi there I also found my radio onco was not the greatest sympathizer, it's like they have seen so many you feel like they think here's another I found if my appointment was late in the day they seemed over it, I found the breast care nurses the ones who actualy listened and got things done for you. As Robyn says pain is like a big weight , it almost puts you in the black hole doesn't it, you have the right to cry , but it does feel better when you have a good weep. And you know what be firm when you go , I know it's hard because all your energy is probably zapped away, hug to you. Regards adean