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Back off please
How do I tell a someone to ease up on the questions, especially when I don't even have the answers myself
Its a close friend so I don't want to hurt her. but it feels like a million and one questions every day.
I know this is never going to go away but I would like a day where can at least put it in the background.
Its a close friend so I don't want to hurt her. but it feels like a million and one questions every day.
I know this is never going to go away but I would like a day where can at least put it in the background.
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- thanks @kmakm.
I'm usually a very easy going person. I've just managed to say goodnight to her and got a very big suspicion my troubles are a distraction for her at the moment as she has a lot of not nice stuff happening at the moment. But I just don't know how long I can keep saying I Don't Know. and my head hurts when I get off the line to her.
I'm a bit of a crab and hide in the sand, mostly do what I have to and cross each bridge as I come to it. - "I love you dearly and I truly appreciate your interest, but right now I really don't want to talk about it. I hope you don't mind."
or
"Do you mind if we don't talk about it anymore? I just want to focus on other things for a bit."
It's very challenging isn't it? I hope you can get your friend to back off. K xox
