I had a couple of buddies who didn’t step up to the plate which really surprised me .... but the ones who did ...MORE than made up for those who didn’t.
I think some just don’t know what to say, so say nothing at all ... and don’t realise the hurt they’ve caused.
Maybe they think that we/I am STRONG ... but even having been thru My husband’s cancer ... when it happens to YOU ... it is still like a sledgehammer to the head!!
I am just so grateful for all my ‘new’ buddies, specially here on BCNA .... cos everyone ‘gets it’!
So thanks for being there, friends XX