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Linda_D
5 years agoMember
Hi FLClover,
Thank you so much for your advice and kind words. <3 My sister and her family are in Melbourne. I absolutely agree that the most important thing right now is her health and she needs to concentrate on that. At the same time, her children were always such an important part of her life and now that they've been taken away from her and she has to fight for them I worry that it's way too much for her, especially in the fragile and vulnerable state that she is in after all that cancer treatment. Least of all I want it to affect her health. And I also agree with you regarding the children, they are certainly not stupid (and hers are teenagers) and I know that one day they will get back to her. She has always been a good mother to them and they were her top priority in life and still are. And they know that. I'm even wondering whether they'd ever forgive themselves for not reaching out to her during all of this. But of course we don't know what their father has been telling them... The most disgusting and unfair thing I find is that he's misused the law designed to protect women from violence by their husbands...
But the most important thing right now is her health. Fighting cancer is a long and strenuous way, and I will try to give her all the support that I can in this and also in her fight for her children.
Thank you so much for your advice and kind words. <3 My sister and her family are in Melbourne. I absolutely agree that the most important thing right now is her health and she needs to concentrate on that. At the same time, her children were always such an important part of her life and now that they've been taken away from her and she has to fight for them I worry that it's way too much for her, especially in the fragile and vulnerable state that she is in after all that cancer treatment. Least of all I want it to affect her health. And I also agree with you regarding the children, they are certainly not stupid (and hers are teenagers) and I know that one day they will get back to her. She has always been a good mother to them and they were her top priority in life and still are. And they know that. I'm even wondering whether they'd ever forgive themselves for not reaching out to her during all of this. But of course we don't know what their father has been telling them... The most disgusting and unfair thing I find is that he's misused the law designed to protect women from violence by their husbands...
But the most important thing right now is her health. Fighting cancer is a long and strenuous way, and I will try to give her all the support that I can in this and also in her fight for her children.