Ladies,
I am 42 on January 29 I was diagnosed on 17th October 2008, curative surgery on 22 November 2008 3 rounds of chemo last one news years 2008 Fiished 38 rounds of radiation on 17th April 2009.
Its been nearly 2 years since i had a full hysterectomy and have been on Tamoxifin for 3 years. I am about to go and have a blood test to make sure that I am in full menopause and they will probably change what I am on. The thing that I think everyone is missing is that you are stil producing hormones that effect (estrogen) no matter what and products like Tamoxifin are only blockers for those hormones. Having a hysterectomy was the best thing I ever did. My mood swings are the worst thing that I suffer no matter what, I hate them, they make me hate me but if you go into something fully armed with the knowledge that your going to suffer from this, as I did I forwarned my kids that I am going to yell and go off the handle at a towel being on the floor because like it or not thats what my life is until I finish with the tablets and menopause. I will continue to say to you all YOUR DRIVING, its your health you need to find and read up on all the types of treatments and decide for yourself what is best. Doctors are useful creatures and are highly educated animals but they are not the be all and end all of YOUR life. YOU are. I got educated, I educated my mother, the literature they give you is so monoslavic its almost ignorant of what you are going to go through. I urge you all once you have been diagnosed educate yourself educate educate. Once chemo and radiation is over you need to totally live your life as normal as possible and not live life as a victim, your not, you are an empowered women who is in control of herself and her surroundings you will spend so much time at hospital in the initial few months of the diagnosis that you will be pissed off angry and want to take out everything on the person closest to you. I had no one. I am alone and have been most of my life. They say see counsellors do it if you need to, but the whole sympathy you poor thing look pissed me off more. I went on living as if I had a doctors appointment every 3 weeks and was throwing up because i ate crap food. its how i got through. All i want to say is educate yourself. Find a hobby do a jigsaw knit i don't know something its cancer you 33 to 1 chance your the survivor buck up cheer up and live up. I work when needed and travel the rest. I love Australia but there is an entire world out there that I have to explore. Its got my name stamped all over it. so if you see me with a pink shirt with a big pink ribbon in your country stop me say hello and you never know we may just be become friends!!! BLESS YOU ALL LOVE YOU ALL GIVE YOURSELVES A BREAK. your gonna need it