Tamoxifen side effects?

Hello Ladies. I am now 42 very close to 43 and was diagnosed at 39. I did not do my full 6 rounds if chemo but did do 8 weeks of radiation and have been on tamoxifen for nearly 3 years. I have also at my own request had a full hysterectomy as I decided that it was the best couse of action for myself. I have never felt better. The only thing i dislike is not being able to have my breast reconstructed. I have not had any long term side effects other than going through menopause. But I chose that with the full knowledge I could not take hormone replacements. Everyone is different my children are in there 20's so I had better choices be able to make than most. I also did not tell anyone. I had a wig made (extremely) expensive but very few people know what I was going through. I love support and give everything to support woman going through this because it's a lonely journey even with the greatest friends. With tamoxife weigh up your options. My mother refused to take it. She got cancer a year after me and she us doing okay. I love my life but am feet scared to tell anyone especially prospective employers. Do what you think us right once you decide on a health plan you cannot have regrets it's to late to change. Get all the information research and DO NOT get pushed into anything by oncologists yes they are the doctors but it's your life. Do what us best for your wellbeing. You are the one going through this. Do not let others make it about them. They live cherish and honor you but YOUR DRIVING