Thank you for joining us, we know that going through breast cancer (or any kind of Cancer) not only affects the person going through it, but also family and friends, and that is what this site is about, supporting anyone affected by breast cancer, so having been that person, i am sure you will be able to help others, there is no right or wrong way to react in these situations, and thats why sites like this are so good, we can scream, vent, or just chat, and by helping ourselves we can help others going through the journey, so please keep up the good work here. Regards Moira