Hi maxis, I’m glad to hear your medical advice seemed reasonable and balanced. Considering your overall health picture and quality of life is paramount to getting the right outcome.
I’m so sorry to hear How much you are facing! With your own health issues and then caring for your dear very sick husband too. That’s a lot. I’m holding you both in my heart and wishing for the most positive outcome possible. Life can be cruel, that’s for sure.
I have been reading a post from Tanasha22 on this website about her experience with RT and how the side-effects didn’t show up until months and months later. When after the 6 weeks of treatment she seemed fine, she was simply told by the oncologist to ‘have a good life.’ He was clueless about what she later suffered due to treatment.
Personally, from what you’ve said I’m glad you didn’t pursue RT. It could have left you with serious deficits and added health problems.
There’s a lot of debate as to whether RT is necessary for DCIS, and it generally comes down to a number of things including age, family history, type and stage of the DCIS. I was about to take part in a trial when I was considered to have DCIS and that would have included the hospital sending a sample of my tumour to an overseas lab for testing. As I mentioned I got pulled off due to the invasive cancer finding by the Lab.
Since that time I’ve read and heard numerous cases of the long term damage that RT can cause. I advise anyone to ask questions and seek out why it’s considered necessary, factually including the actual statistical improvement in your specific case, not generalisations. RT is not to be considered lightly and to be considered only if really necessary.
My own father-in-law had RT following a finding of oesophagus cancer. It was necessary and he lived for nearly 5 years afterwards. However, ultimately the RT damaged his oesophagus so badly, that it was ‘tearing like paper’ according to the Hospital he was later admitted to. Because he could not eat, at first solids, then almost anything, his quality of life suffered tremendously. He lost interest in living, refused having a PEG tube in the stomach and died as a result.
So the RT bought him some years but it was not without its own life-limiting consequences.
Hugs and more hugs!