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PatsyN
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7 years ago

Pain/mood management

Pain is an issue for all of us at (most) times during treatment. I've taken the usual assortment of painkillers on offer and they all work on me. They come on slowly and then wear off and I try to hurry home (if I'm out which is usually the reason I take a painkiller).
The last 2 weeks I've had a patch put on me and it's lifted my mood. It's stopped me crying whenever I'm alone AND has taken all my (physical) pain away.
I didn't ask for it. It was put on me by my radiologist who knew what was coming up next (lots of blisters).
Has anyone else been given pain patches?
I'm wondering why I wasn't offered them earlier and saved myself 12 months of tears (I have been seeing a cognitive therapist).
Am I getting better or is the patch tricking me into feeling good? 
I'm worried about returning to my teary emotional self once the patches are ceased.
I don't see my therapist until next month.

  • Back again @PatsyN - there is another side effect to Arimidex (and an important one, so I’m surprised I forgot it!) and that’s loss of bone density.  I’ve been having bone density scans for a couple of years due to early menopause.   My left hip is a problem area and has deteriorated further since taking Arimidex.  My oncologist said it’s not in the danger zone yet but I have started 6 monthly prolia injections.  My next scan is in August so fingers crossed it hasn’t worsened.  
    All the exercise and calcium hasn’t made much difference to me but I know many of the ladies have had great success in reversing bone loss x
  • @Hopes_and_Dreams - My first bone density scan is next Tuesday. After the frying I got from radiation I've been asked to not fall over because my ribs are so brittle. It was suggested that I look out for stones and things that I might trip over.
    No one mentioned galloping a horse bareback down the beach (which is my plan).
    My joints have been aching since day 1 of chemo, lol, so I can deal with that.
    I've been thru menopause so hot flushes no big deal.
    Putting on weight would be fantastic. My usual weight is 45 kgs which is too thin on a woman my age but at present I'm only 41 kilos.
    But vaginal atrophy?
    I'm afraid that's a dealbreaker.
    I've still got the script in my bag...
    Thanks so much for all your info.
    I'm really hoping I won't even notice, it's been 12 months of pain already so I'm kinda used to it, I guess...
  • @Hopes_and_Dreams What is fennel cream?  I've never heard of it and a quick google just brought up food recipes!
  • @Sister  I have a prescription for a fennel based cream from a compounding pharmacist.  It is syringed to the vagina at night and helps maintain internal vaginal suppleness and moisture.  The story goes it was used by ancient Egyptians as a natural remedy for this particular side effect of menopause.
    My GP’s wife also had breast cancer so I am benefiting from much of his year long research to help her.
     @PatsyN I would expect that an element of vaginal atrophy would be naturally occurring post menopause but yes, Arimidex does it’s best to suppress the oestrogen stragglers still being made in our bodies.  I was concerned too but it is manageable and worth it to keep cancer at bay.  
    Talk to your GP about your concerns - there are all sorts of natural products which can help you.

    Interesting side note - I had a full hysterectomy on Tuesday (uterus, tubes, ovaries and cervix)
    and I haven’t had one hot flush since, not even at night??   Jane x
  • That is interesting @Hopes_and_Dreams. Were you expecting this side effect?
  • I didn’t really expect anything to change at all @kmakm . I figured my overies were dried up raisins already so removing them would make no difference at all :)
    I only had a couple of flushes a night where I kicked the quilt off but nothing for the last 2 nights. Rather get none so let’s hope this continues!