Thank you all for your kind words and support with this issue. I feel strongly about this and more so sitting by my fathers side and watching him take his last breath, thinking that I too will have to discuss this issue with my teenage daughters when we feel the timing is right. And that I may have passed on to my daughters BRCA gene and can't help feel I may be responsible for something I had no control or knowledge of. Will my daughters understand? Will they think any less of me? Due to this lack of education and understanding that men, fathers can pass BRCA on to there children and have to face the responsibility of that, no different to a women. The percentages may be less but the grief and the effect on the family and friends can be the same.