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sandycee
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15 years ago

Meditation Does Work

Whilst I was recuperating the first time around in hospital after my surgery, I took some time out to meditate on my own.

To breathe in slowly through my nose, then out through my mouth. I just sat cross legged on my hospital bed and sat tall.

I closed my eyes and started to breathe - allowing all the negative issues out from my out breath. i felt really relieved of all the stress that had been going on and even began to forget that I still had then two drains coming out of my right side.

When I looked over toward the window (I was on the fifth floor with a lovely view of Sydney) I felt much calmer and more in control of myself. Able to face what ever was happening again. Even when the vampire came around to harvest some more blood from me, it didn't seem quite so bad.

I have realised now, that it isn't so much the breathing IN that helps - and mind you, it does help enormously - yet it is the breathing OUT that helps much more. When this happens, you are releasing the negative issues along with your stale air and breath and thus making way for new energy/air to come in and fill your lungs.

All of this works even better if you can visualise a pleasing place - the beach, a waterfall, your own home, infront of a log fire, where ever you love to be on your own - and keep this place in your mind - lock it in so that it becomes an easy place to remember. Walk there, in your mind, bring it up at a moment's notice. Our mind is really so very powerful. If we can only remember to do this - all will be much better. Mind you, I did much forgetting of this when there was so much trauma of my own getting the retched drain pushed back in one day, and then pulled out the next!

We are only but human, I just wanted to share something positive here. Hope it helps some of you.

B.B.

Sandy xx

7 Replies

  • Oh! Great news, Sandy.  No wonder you're smiling.   :)

  • Oh! Great news, Sandy.  No wonder you're smiling.   :)

  • AB-So-LUTELY Di

    I have just got my results back today and am feeling over the moon.

    Fortunately I had the mastectomy cos the cancer was riddled throughout my breast. HOWEVER all 19 of the lymph nodes which were taken away from my body showed NO CANCER!!! I am so happy.

    I am now being referred to an Onchologist for some radiation and hormonal treatment to get rid of what ever is left thay 'may' be lurking around. Everything else is going well.

    I was so happy I had a new hair style, colour and cut. It may be in vain in the future, though right now - I can handle everything and cope with life again.

    Have a great weekend everyone - I'm off to work with a smile on my face.

  • Ha! I don't remember being taught anything that useful in kindergarten or primary school! Love the paper bag thing. :)

    And good for you, Sandy!  One thing I've learned, is that you definitely can decide "I am not going to be like this any more".  Strong is good. :)

  • Yes Di, it really does work - just to remember to remember that's what we need to do.

    I remember doing this way back in the dim dark years of kindergarten actually. The teacher told us to visualise our worst fear and breathe it out into a paper bag - blowing it up as much as we could. Then we tightly held it around the top of the bag and punched it really hard so it would go "POP" and it would then explode and let out that fear into the universe. So it would never bother us again.

    That was a long time ago - about 47 years ago. I wish they still taught that in schools today. Trouble is I forgot all about it until recently, so I am just now starting back on that path to be rid of all the negatives in my life. I can't stand being so overwhelmed all the time with a fear of needles - or just being sick. I feel so useless and am helpless when I have no control over my body when it falls to pieces without me.

    Time to stand up and say "I am not going to be like this anymore"  - I am going to be strong! I am strong. I AM VERY STRONG!

    Then to remember it....

    :) Sandy

  • Yes Di, it really does work - just to remember to remember that's what we need to do.

    I remember doing this way back in the dim dark years of kindergarten actually. The teacher told us to visualise our worst fear and breathe it out into a paper bag - blowing it up as much as we could. Then we tightly held it around the top of the bag and punched it really hard so it would go "POP" and it would then explode and let out that fear into the universe. So it would never bother us again.

    That was a long time ago - about 47 years ago. I wish they still taught that in schools today. Trouble is I forgot all about it until recently, so I am just now starting back on that path to be rid of all the negatives in my life. I can't stand being so overwhelmed all the time with a fear of needles - or just being sick. I feel so useless and am helpless when I have no control over my body when it falls to pieces without me.

    Time to stand up and say "I am not going to be like this anymore"  - I am going to be strong! I am strong. I AM VERY STRONG!

    Then to remember it....

    :) Sandy

  • Hi Sandy -- love the idea of breathing out negative issues. Makes it all sound so much more do-able, doesn't it? :)