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Piak
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10 years ago

Ideal Oncologists

Everyone wants their doctor to be compassionate, but what I need most of all is leadership

Found this interesting article in the American Cancer Network which I want to share.

The Seven Traits of Leadership on the High Seas of Cancer Blog | February 18, 2016By Craig R. Hildreth, MD Craig R. Hildreth, MD “The white-haired Texan

 

These are the leadership qualities I see

 

  1. Please know your stuff. As a leader, you should have a thorough knowledge of my cancer and of the latest developments in research, and be ready to formulate a plan of

 

  1. Please do your homework. I expect you to have reviewed my medical records prior to my appointment. You’ve looked at my x-rays; you have my pathology report; you know how many children I have. In the world of cancer care, every scrap of data must be scrutinized for its

 

  1. Please respect my point of view. Leaders listen to all sides thoughtfully before reaching a conclusion. With patience and finesse, I’m sure you can help me to feel confident about the plan you have shaped for me

 

  1. Please be curious. Don’t close your mind to new hypotheses and don’t ignore clues that might lead you toward the best results. Please rid yourself of the temptation to make your day easier by delivering perfunctory care. For example, my next-door neighbor saw a doctor for an unexplained high iron level and he asked her, “Have you ever had cataract surgery?” When she said, “Yes, and so has my son when he was 4 years old,” the doctor diagnosed hereditary hyperferritinemia-cataract syndrome

 

  1. When it’s decision time, please decide! If you think treating my cancer is not worth it; if you think I am at the point where I should stop chemotherapy; if I have veered off the path you have cleared for me—then speak up! Care for me with a dogged determination to get me healthy and don’t keep any secrets that might lead to regret. I want an oncologist who knows what’s best for me and doesn’t chicken out in difficult times.

 

  1. Please be responsible. Follow up on promises and follow through on tasks. I can tell you with absolute certainty that there is no greater disappointment than realizing that you cannot rely on your doctor.

 

  1. Please talk to me. I need your advice, comfort, and expertise; I am scared and discouraged—are you willing to take a seat, look me in the face, and answer my questions? Leaders welcome scrutiny of their communication skills. No one cares if a flunky is curt.

 

Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share my concerns. If you think my “Seven Traits of Leadership” match your practice style, then I look forward to meeting you. If not, do not fret—I shall simply sail on to the next harbor.

 

 

2 Replies

  • I have told people many times I have the best team , I feel blessed to have my dr team they are exactly what you described I feel like I'm there only patient when I go. I'm 4 years post and they still see me every 3 months. They all communicate with each other. I am blessed

  • Hi Piak,

    i know where you are coming from, I am disappointed with 2 of my 3 primary doctors. I feel I have no choice as I live in the country, apart from driving 6 hours to the city for every visit. At this stage I am having 3 monthly bloods and Doctor appointments. I had a quiet a few questions for my chemo oncologist which he brushed aside as questions for my GP, I can tell you I was pissed off as I think they are Chemo & tamoxifen side effects that I wanted to discuss. These are the drugs that he gave me so he should have the answers! What is a person to do? I would like to give these appointments a miss as a waste of tax payers money but you never know and it is hard to ver off the path when doctors have such athority over your treatment.

    I did give my first surgeon the flick and am so thankful I did, my surgeon tickets all the boxes above thank goodness. You have to have absolute confidence at least in your primary carer. Don't get me started on the other one! 

    I hope they don't read this site!?

    regards to all the BC troopers

    Kim