HiLizzie27
It’s a good question but please don’t feel foolish, you have every good reason to trust the process and of course we are in a complete whirlwind of information when our diagnosis is made.
In my case my GP referred me to a specialist breast surgeon and explained the surgeon would very likely request another ultrasound and a biopsy (to gain more insight) and then very likely would involve an oncologist (along the lines your husband suggested). That is indeed what happened for me.
But my sequence of treatment was different to yours, as I had 4 months of chemotherapy and immunotherapy (‘neo adjuvant treatment’) prior to surgery. Not knowing very much about breast cancer and it’s various types, I asked why I would have chemotherapy first (or at all) and it was explained to me that the sequence was shaped by several factors, including my particular cancer type. I was HER2 positive, Er + and Pr + and my tumour size 3.8 cm.
My oncologist did liaise closely with my breast surgeon at the start and she was my regular point of contact throughout the chemo, and I saw the breast surgeon midway through the neo adjuvant chemo to assess how my tumour was responding to the chemo and to affirm a recommended surgical plan (I stayed on track for a lumpectomy).
After the lumpectomy surgery and based on my pathology, the breast surgeon determined I need not have further surgery and my oncologist affirmed that. However, as there were some latent cancer cells present in the lump that was removed, I was recommended more chemotherapy, together with immunotherapy.
My oncologist managed my subsequent chemotherapy and endocrine treatment (I started an oestrogen suppressing aromatase inhibitor) and they both liaised with my radiation oncologist for radiation therapy.
I hope you’re feeling comfortable about how you’re progressing through treatment. I feel like my specialists all had a strong patient centric approach and helped me keep a realistic and open mind about what to expect but also, were open about what would be uncertain (which of course was the hardest to deal with!) and to be ok with that until a milestone (say pathology) was to hand.
After I had been through the first 8 or 9 months of treatment I started to read up on the way breast cancer is usually treated - it was not to second guess the treatment I had - I just found it helpful to understand what I had been through. It was also helpful to understand my cancer type - which is less common - because some of my friends who had also had breast cancer treatment, but for different breast cancer types, asked me questions about my treatment and it helped me to understand what was similar, what was different, and why. I found a really interesting decision making pamphlet for people in the early stages of a diagnosis, comparing options and treatments, I will pop into a link in a separate reply for you.