At 41 I was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 weeks ago and had a lumpectomy 2 days ago and lymph nodes removed. My breast nurse told me to go shopping for a wig. I am still trying to absorb everything, it has all happened so fast.
Even though I'm still sore It still feels like it's not happening to me, when I talk about it It feels like I’m talking about someone else. I’m still trying to absorb everything.
Hi there Sal, glad you are recovering well from your op, it takes a bit out of you doesn't it?
Normality is a strange thing isn't it .... I think over the years you take yourself and your health for granted, then when you get hit with something like this life as you know it changes.
What type of work do you do, nothing too physical I hope, especially while your body is in the healing process. I can honestly say I have no idea as to the effects of chemo ... I was fortunate that I didn't need it .... but apparently different people have different reactions.
The main thing is to listen to your body .... if it says rest - then do so. If it says relax with a wine - then do that too !!!!
Do you have your My Journey kit yet - if not (as I said to Shannon) you can order it through this site. It's a wealth of information.
Take care of yourself and keep us posted as to how you are getting on
Cheers .... Shirl xx
Hello I'm 50 had a lumpectomy and lymph nodes removed on the 8 Dec healing ok and have gone back to work to try to stay normal at least for a few hours of the day...I'm starting CT (chemo) on the 10Jan
Hello I'm 50 had a lumpectomy and lymph nodes removed on the 8 Dec healing ok and have gone back to work to try to stay normal at least for a few hours of the day...I'm starting CT (chemo) on the 10Jan
Hi there Shannon, i can imagine what you are going through at the moment, and it's not much fun is it?
Things have happened so quickly for you and you haven't had a chance to marshal your thoughts yet.
I had a 2 week gap between diagnosis and mastectomy and I felt as if my head was spinning. So many appointments, scans, ultra sounds, pre-op .... the lot.
I opted for the mastecftomy and full node removal (not for everyone, but right for me) ... when my results came back clear I was ready for the next course of action. As the cancer had not spread I didn't need chemo or radiotherapy but am on Arimidex for 5 years.
Have your results come back yet and what is the prognosis? You will obviously talk with your oncologist who will point out your options.
Have you received your My Journey kit yet - if not it is available free of charge thru this BCNA site. It is full of useful information ... books that explain just what is happening with your body, a journal to record your tests, appointments and your thoughts. There is also a DVD which is great for you and your partner and family to watch together to give you all a greater understanding of what lies ahead.
This is not an easy journey you are embarking on ... it is not one of your choosing but you are surrounded by a group of women you have never met who will give you their unconditional support. We are here whenever you need our company, a shoulder to cry on or just have a chat and a "cyber-space" cuppa. - in one way or another we have all "been there, done that".
Let us know how you are getting on, what your results are, progress with your treatment etc etc. Pop in anytime, you don't need a reason to join us.
Take care of yourself ......
Cheers .... Shirl xx
