kirsty, there are so many brave women on this site and others that chose anominity to deal with this. for me i am hoping to get practical advice and tips from those who have walked this path before.
so far, im hanging in there. lucky my husband is an angel. i meet my oncoloogist on monday at 2 to discuss treatment which is scary and i think xmas will be a bust.lol but one shitty xmas in a lifetime of them is a miniscule price to pay. i know i have some chemo and radiation to do, and am finding looking at scarves etc very confronting, but i have to try and be practical, so today i will be surfing the net.lol. you like me, have the strength and hopefully the support.
i just didnt think i was that strong, but who knew. take care and wishes for next weeks surgery. will b thinking of you