@Zoffiel
thank you
yes you are correct
the person in question
who I removed the comments as per advice
from here
is also another bc survivor
who just under gone a double mastectomy herself ( her choice I believe)
but it’s been the cruel comments she had made rather than listening or being supportive
As one would think
I’m now tired of excusing this behaviour
as I believe they know better in what they say
saying hurtful things to lighten the situation
isn’t cool
not in the manner it’s been done & said
but yes you are very very correct
Along with everyone else
time to let certain ones go
Thanks for your advice and good wishes
xx