Hi @Miriam17au
Mant people refer to this as a “ journey” and I think this is correct.
Although everyone’s experience is slightly different there are a lot of commonalities and this website and online forum is a great place to get information and support.
The “Choosing breast reconstruction “ is an excellent private group - there are photos and stories and I found it very helpful in coming to my decision ( double mastectomy with DIEP flap reconstruction .)
Going fiat is also an option and there is a private group for that too.
I was always big breasted so going flat seemed a bridge too far for me.
Take care and you can post any question on here nothing is considered too silly or trivial and we are all here to help .
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