Thank you so much for your comments @Zoffiel and @Clemis your comments certainly resonate with me, it's a bloody lottery isn't it. I have my appointment with the Chemo Dr tomorrow who I know will give me the lecture you mention @Zoffiel, I even had the Radiotherapy Dr call me yesterday to cancel my appt as he assumed I would be a Chemo patient!!
Fortunately my family are being very supportive of my thoughts of "No Chemo" (I do not have a partner and my children are adults), it's my life, my body and my decision, let's just hope Lady Luck will be on my side