This tuff cookie is crumbling

@Melc503 What the other girls have said. Over and over. Allow your feelings. Put yourself first - every time Visits from young kids - no way. From another control freak - be aware of the difference between the need to relinquish control much of the time, and maintaining your alertness to when "processes" might be letting you fall through the cracks, or when you're not being given the answers you need; stay ready to step in and insist, or self-advocate. Trust your gut instinct. 

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Fran x