Okay. So I had my oncologist appointment today. She was appalled at the oncology psych and apologised profusely and then when I told the BC nurse she was also horrified and apologetic. Apparently the psych was out of line and my oncologist was worried I may have been traumatised by the woman. Nope. Fortunately I had the mindfulness session beforehand where we practised being grounded. However it was nice knowing these two agreed with me that the psych was useless. Sometimes just having someone agree with you is enough.