Hi @Rdella,
Totally stinks to be here but welcome to the forum. This whole thing is a mind blow and a series of endless waiting. Waiting for scans, waiting for results, and chasing up shit that nobody did! Ranting is encouraged here, it's the place to let everything out with no judgement and the depth of knowledge and compassion on the forum is something you just can't get anywhere else. Nobody else can understand where your at like someone that's been there.
It takes time to get all the ducks in a row and they like to give you some recovery after surgery.
It's not unusual to have a month between diagnosis and surgery, 4 -6 weeks before you start chemo then another 4 weeks before radiation, You need some healing time in between being chopped, poisoned and nuked :)
You learn pretty quickly that you are your own best advocate and just keep ringing your BCN if you're feeling lost or worried something isn't happening.
The start is the pitts. Once you have your plan you should start to feel somewhat more in control.
Lotsa love sweet.
xoxoxoxox
