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OldDuck
11 years agoMember
The first 24 hours
Was told yesterday that I have breast cancer.
I have no idea the type, severity, outcomes or anything until Monday when I see a specialist. All the worse scenarios keep going through my head. Then I try and logic it out and figure statistics should be on my side. It's awful and I'm only 24 hours into my journey.
I want to get off this bus and get back on the healthy- happy- nothing wrong with me bus!
17 Replies
- lrb_03Member
I'm a nurse, now working in GP land. I work Monday, Wednesday, Friday. I have a really supportive workplace. I take the days off when I need, but my managers are trying to find things that I can do from home, when I feel up to it. Each cycle my reaction has been a little different, but this 3rd cycle has been the worst with nausea & fatigue. Good to hear from Tracey that the docataxel sode effects aren't as bad. Take care
Lyn
- LindylooMember
Keep posting Old duck, you will get lots of support on here ??
- LindylooMember
Someone told me to paint my nails with glossy varnish. Holding up well so far!????
- LindylooMember
Yes, the book was very helpful. Tells you just about everything, right down to the different drugs and their side effects. I am on TAC. It has definitely reduced the tumour on the first treatment. I don't get much nausea but feel drained. On the last week when I was feeling my old self, hubby and I went for a walk. 4km along the river. I was totally drained by the end of it. I am at the moment on long service leave from work for a couple of months but don't feel I could return to work as I have to stand all the time and be chatty and upbeat (I'm a newborn baby photographer). How have other people coped with work?
- AnonymousNot applicable
Hi Lindyloo, I've just finished 3 rounds of FEC and 3 rounds of Docetaxel. You're not as nauseous on the Docetaxel, but there is a bit of boney pain that you'll need panadol. Keep your fingernails and toenails to protect them as well. I wore ice gloves during chemo and this saved my nails. Hope this helps, Trace ????
- GlynnisMember
Hi lindyloo, I too have had 4 cycles AC, I'm on my 5th cycle of Taxol with 7 more to go, lymph node removal in October followed by radiation treatment, all treatment should be finished by just before Xmas so looking forward to that, yes it is a roller coaster of a ride, best advise I received was take it day by day and stay positive, glynnis
- OldDuckMember
Good luck Lindyloo! The responses from strangers has been great. It makes you realise you are not alone. Thanks
- lrb_03Member
Hi Lindyloo, I too, am having chemo 1st, before surgey, then radiotherapy. Have just had my 3rd cycle of FEC. Next cycle Docetaxel. See what that brings. In the meantime, I also go for an ultrasound d & review with my surgeon to see how things are going. I'm going to have to look in to that book. Did you find it helpful?
Lyn
- LindylooMember
When I was first diagnosed I felt the same as you. What? Why? When? I had many people offer advise who had been through the same thing. However we are all slightly different and will all have slightly different treatments. I am having chemo first (only one other person I know had this first) then surgery then radiation. Someone suggested I get from the library a book by Dr. Susan Love's Breast Book. It is very informative. I would also get the 'my Journey Kit' from this site. Again good information. I wanted to know as much as I could, so that when I saw the specialist I knew what he was talking about. Because believe me it is a lot to take in! Make sure you take someone with you too.
this site has some amazing people who will help you through it all and don't be afraid to ask anything.
I've just had my second chemo yesterday. I have four more to go. I think I'm doing ok. Lots of support always helps.
best of luck to you. Let us know how you are getting on. ??
- OldDuckMember
Thanks Rowdy. I guess it takes the mind a few days to go through the stages of anger, denial, resentment and now I think I've accepted the diagnosis so it's putting all my energies into the fight ahead. I'm hating the thought of telling people. I know they will be lovely and supportive it's just having to retell my story. Ok maybe I haven't really accepted it yet!