The “journey” begins.

@MrsMorrisey definitely let it all out because as I read somewhere, ‘that shit gets heavy’. I understand how frustrating it is when people offer advice when, as you know, they are not walking this path. No one should comment on your treatment choices outside your health team (and maybe those closest to you) who do actually know what they are doing. It is very insensitive of someone to comment on the medication that you may need to take to put you on the path to a great life. I did chemo and was incredibly grateful it was available and that new treatment options continue to be offered. Try not to listen to the people who are giving you unhelpful advice. I know many of us here could fill a book of comments/actions of others that were completely unhelpful. Your team may mention an oncotype test if they are not sure about chemo. I was diagnosed 4 years ago and was not offered it, but I think I probably would be offered it if they knew what they know back then. I don’t know all of the details, but it may be worth asking about given you have clear nodes etc. and they are mentioning ‘grey area’.