Terrified of what lies ahead!

I think it depends on who your child is with. I probably wouldn't say yes if he/she is home alone.  But do let school know what is going on, regardless.  That was also on my list who I contacted - the teacher.  My surgeries were both during the holidays and my 3 stayed home together with a list of contact numbers. First surgery, my husband stayed with me from early in the morning until whatever time I came out of recovery. Second time, I sent him home when I was taken to theatre.