Hi @CathyMac. Sorry you find yourself here in this forum, but glad you have found all of these wonderful BC Warriors. Your upgrade of tumor size seems a common scenario. Diagnosis seems to morph for the first month or so. What can be seen on initial imaging and tests is often not what is happening in there. When my BS did my lumpectomy, three tumors were found, rather than just one. The one that was detected via a mammogram and then ultrasound was first thought to be 2cm, when in fact after surgery it was 3cm.
So, I completely understand your position and current feeling of things spiraling out of control. xx