Take 1 or Take 2 breasts
Newly diagnosed with DCIS. Surgery scheduled for the right breast. Conflicted over whether to take the left as well. Will the difference in look and feel be a substantial mental health element? Will t...
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Welcome, sorry you have to be here but I hope you find it useful (even enjoyable) nevertheless. I hadn’t your diagnosis but cancer in left breast, right breast OK. You may want to think about the following:
- what is your surgeon’s advice?
- is there any family history of cancer?
- have you had any major surgery before (so that you know how you/ your body react)?
- what are your thoughts about reconstruction?
There’s a completely understandable wish to get it all over and done with in one go. But you don’t know what you don’t know and knowing how you and your body react to a single mastectomy may be useful before making the decision about a bilateral procedure. I discussed the matter with my oncologist (some time after my mastectomy, when a friend decided to lose both breasts) and his view was that I had as much, if not more, chance of cancer elsewhere in the body as in my remaining breast. Not necessarily a huge threat (I am now seven years with no evidence of disease), but not specifically greater for my right breast. You always have the option to remove the other breast later.
I stayed with a single mastectomy, no reconstruction, and I am fine with it. Reconstruction is really important for some and not for others, it’s a very personal thing.
Such a a lot to think about, which is why dealing with one thing at a time, even if it prolongs the process, may sometimes be helpful. Best wishes.
- what is your surgeon’s advice?
- is there any family history of cancer?
- have you had any major surgery before (so that you know how you/ your body react)?
- what are your thoughts about reconstruction?
There’s a completely understandable wish to get it all over and done with in one go. But you don’t know what you don’t know and knowing how you and your body react to a single mastectomy may be useful before making the decision about a bilateral procedure. I discussed the matter with my oncologist (some time after my mastectomy, when a friend decided to lose both breasts) and his view was that I had as much, if not more, chance of cancer elsewhere in the body as in my remaining breast. Not necessarily a huge threat (I am now seven years with no evidence of disease), but not specifically greater for my right breast. You always have the option to remove the other breast later.
I stayed with a single mastectomy, no reconstruction, and I am fine with it. Reconstruction is really important for some and not for others, it’s a very personal thing.
Such a a lot to think about, which is why dealing with one thing at a time, even if it prolongs the process, may sometimes be helpful. Best wishes.