Sorry to see you join our exclusive little group, @skeetie xx. We have 2 private groups that you can join & ask any questions (and even see pics) of both reconstructions and going flat ..... Just go to the groups in the blue banner above - and click on both groups, & click the join button. xx. All questions/answers & pics are totally private.
Feel free to check out this post too, for other info on the forum that may interest you xx
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-our-new-members#latestTake care & all the best with your decision making xx