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Hi @skeetie
one of my best girlfriends said if I went flat after having such big breasts  I might topple over backwards!
I was 62 and humming and ha ing  about what to do - my hubby was great he said he married me for my brain not my breasts and whatever I decided he’d just be happy to have me alive 🥰
It is a very personal decision and as my breast cancer surgeon said no one can tell you what to do - that would be like telling you you can’t have lace on your wedding dress.
Take care.

Hi @skeetie , welcome. The previous posts have given you lots of places to read and see what others have done and how to make decisions. Just letting you know I am 4 months post Double mastectomy and DIEP flap. Huge surgery but I am happy I did it. I haven't had complications or issues but it's a big recovery. Good luck with your path.

Hi @Julez1958 i have joined that group to and seen a lot of woman choosing to go flat as I'm big breasted to there's lots of pros and cons to both i don't want multi surgery's either so I'm still so confused on what to do and aint got much time to figger it out :( 

Hi Skeetie,
I just want to wish you luck and hope you get lots of info back from members.
This forum has really helped me and I'm newly diagnosed too.
xx

Hi @skeetie
I joined the private group on here “ Choosing Breast Reconstruction ” and found the stories and photos very helpful in coming to my decision.
I had double mastectomy and DIEP flap reconstruction , it was a big operation and recovery but I am very happy with the results.
i didn’t want implants as my plastic surgeon said they would probably have to be replaced in 10 to 15 years  and I couldn’t face that.
Many ladies also choose to go flat - as I was always big breasted ( D cup went to E cup when I put on weight) I thought going flat  was a bridge too far , in the end I went down to  C cups and that was good.
Good luck with whatever you decide.

Hello @skeetie - I opted to go flat because I wanted to streamline the process as much as possible and avoid any risks - but I’m not saying it’s a risky thing to do - just that was my preference. I do feel sad, but I’m wearing my free Berlei bra already and going to get fitted for breast forms soon. The surgeon did a very nice job, very neat and tidy!

Please note - I was fairly small beforehand so while it’s still fairly drastic a change, perhaps that made it a little easier? 

A lot will depend on your future plan of treatment, beyond Mastectomy.
Has your surgeon offered implant at the time of Mastectomy? Some Surgeons may offer this.
Some surgeons are conservative, and want all Cancer treatments completed and recovered from before planning Reconstruction. Radiotherapy can be damaging to healthy tissues, and can damage Implants if already in. Or R/T can damage the tissues that will support an Implant.
I have a friend who has had immediate implants, with no R/T.
My BC was probably larger and faster growing. Mastectomy with Axillary Clearance,. Chemo and R/T
I have had reconstruction, but I was advised to have delayed Recon.
My Cancer treatment was most of 2020. I started Recon approx 18mths later, in 2022.
As the others have said, look in the other sub groups.
Ask us any questions. All the best.

https://www.reclaimyourcurves.org.au/

A very good resource to research 

thankyou lady's i have joined now waiting on confirmation