Kahm
4 years agoMember
Surgery, radio, sleep, and restless legs
This is a long shot, but just in case...
I had a mastectomy and reconstruction in mid-December, and I'm almost halfway through radiation treatment.
I've always had restless legs, and there's something about major surgeries that seems to make it flare up badly. I had an abdominal hernia/muscle separation repaired at the end of 2020, and the restless legs were terrible afterwards!
Anyway, I'm really struggling with sleep at the moment. I'm exhausted, but as soon as I start to feel ‘sleepy’ my legs start to twitch (mostly the left, because, hey, sure, why not?)
Last night I think I finally managed to drop off after midnight, but was up from 2-4 am intermittently pacing, doing yoga, stretching, massaging, swearing, and trying to sleep.
Then I was up again at 6 doing the same thing. I got maybe 5 hours of broken sleep. And it's been like this for WEEKS. It's like newborn days, only quieter.
I'm doing all the things that have worked before: strengthening the muscles that are twitching, stretching what's tight, nerve glides, settling the parasympathetic nervous system before bed, massage, magnesium supplements, reducing overwhelm during the day. This is a crazy complex syndrome, and has many contributing factors. It's intensely frustrating.
But I guess that's really only part of the picture, because I'm also still sore from the mastectomy. And the radiation is starting to get uncomfortable. And I want it OVER, but I'm also dreading the end because then I just get to wait and hope that treatment worked. All of that is playing merry hell with my sleep too, or at least with my stress levels.
Anyway, my questions for you lovely folks are:
1) Are extremely restless legs something that others have noticed, or am I a shiny snowflake?
2) Any tips beyond that for sleep?
3) Any tips for managing discomfort during radiation? I've got mepitel and moogoo, I'm hiding from the sun like a troll/vampire hybrid, and I'm drinking ALLLLL the water. I still suspect I'm about to develop the worst case of sunburn I've ever had. Owie.
4) Can you ever lie on your front again after implant reconstruction? I'm generally a tummy sleeper, and I'm missing being able to snuggle up in bed like I normally would.
Ta muchly ❤️
Anyway, I'm really struggling with sleep at the moment. I'm exhausted, but as soon as I start to feel ‘sleepy’ my legs start to twitch (mostly the left, because, hey, sure, why not?)
Last night I think I finally managed to drop off after midnight, but was up from 2-4 am intermittently pacing, doing yoga, stretching, massaging, swearing, and trying to sleep.
Then I was up again at 6 doing the same thing. I got maybe 5 hours of broken sleep. And it's been like this for WEEKS. It's like newborn days, only quieter.
I'm doing all the things that have worked before: strengthening the muscles that are twitching, stretching what's tight, nerve glides, settling the parasympathetic nervous system before bed, massage, magnesium supplements, reducing overwhelm during the day. This is a crazy complex syndrome, and has many contributing factors. It's intensely frustrating.
But I guess that's really only part of the picture, because I'm also still sore from the mastectomy. And the radiation is starting to get uncomfortable. And I want it OVER, but I'm also dreading the end because then I just get to wait and hope that treatment worked. All of that is playing merry hell with my sleep too, or at least with my stress levels.
Anyway, my questions for you lovely folks are:
1) Are extremely restless legs something that others have noticed, or am I a shiny snowflake?
2) Any tips beyond that for sleep?
3) Any tips for managing discomfort during radiation? I've got mepitel and moogoo, I'm hiding from the sun like a troll/vampire hybrid, and I'm drinking ALLLLL the water. I still suspect I'm about to develop the worst case of sunburn I've ever had. Owie.
4) Can you ever lie on your front again after implant reconstruction? I'm generally a tummy sleeper, and I'm missing being able to snuggle up in bed like I normally would.
Ta muchly ❤️