So Sad

I would advise not to dr google too much until u actually know what is going on - after that u can educate yourself but make sure u use reputable Australian sites. 

The very word Chemo scared the hell out of me two weeks ago.  Not so now but still don't want it.  I've planned until Tuesday that's when results come back, then off to see oncologist.  Happy Days! I think that I should go on some sort of Centrelink payment, but keep putting it off to ring them.   As for Dr Google well he can go to hell,  not going back there.  Isnt that an uplifting experience.  lol.   

I think you'll find that many of us on this network like to research and have all the info we can.  It is good to try to get your thoughts in order for appointments so you can ask good questions.  Just try to stay away from Dr Google - it's not very helpful!

@melony I am completely the same - and anal retentive, stubborn lost maker - all qualities that actually help when this happens to u. I have just found the loss of control to be the hardest and the fact that I felt my life was on hold. I have found my planning and organising to be a great help with scheduling appointment and organising your life around chemo. 

I too felt completely well until the dreaded mammogram call back.  Doesn't that give you a sinking feeling.  And it just kept on getting better.  lol.  Thank you.  All really good advice.  To take one day at a time is huge for me.  I'm a control freak,  A planner, a organiser., the person everyone goes to for help.    Thank you again for the warm welcome.  Hope that I can help someone on here. 

@melony so sorry u have had to join us all here. We all go through through the terror and uncertainty when first diagnosed- I know I did. I found this forum to be great though - no such thing as a stupid question and all the women here are happy to share their own experiences. Big hugs xoxoxo 

@melony Not surprised to see a post at 5am - you'll often find someone up and on this site during the night.  Getting that diagnosis is so hard and then the constant waiting to find out exactly what has hit you and what options you have to deal with it.  And there are people on this forum who are at many places on the BC spectrum but we all know what it's like to suddenly have your life turned upside down by this.  I felt completely well when I went along to my Breastscreen mammogram.  Then life gave me an almighty kick and I've been travelling along this rollercoaster since December and a way to go yet.  All I can say is to try to take one day at a time.  This forum is wonderful for support, advice, information and a few laughs and the knowledge that people understand what you're going through.  

thanks

Hello - you're feelings are normal even though you may not think so at this point.  Normally @SoldierCrab, one of our valued contributors and moderators would give an intro - it's early so I have copied and pasted for you!  Hope it helps as you get a grasp of the website and know that there's always someone not far from the forum to help out!

"It is hard when we are first diagnosed... 

Below are a couple of links to help you find your way around the forum and also how to find a breast care nurse and how to order a MY journey Kit if you haven't got one yet. 

It can be a a whirlwind when we first get a diagnosed.... Breathe and take it one step at a time. 

The what and how thread.

http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/14879/the-what-and-how-thread/p1 

Breast Care Nurses

https://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx 

My Journey Kits and other resources. 

https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/

BCNA Helpline 1800 500 258

If you have any questions, concerns or require any further information or support please call 1800 500 258.  The Helpline is open Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 9 am till 5 pm EST and Tuesday and Thursday from 9 am till 9 pm EST

Also I will add this link from the BCNA website 

https://www.bcna.org.au/understanding-breast-cancer/types-of-breast-cancer/

Take care