Dear Melony, as all the lovely ladies have already added...what you're experiencing is perfectly normal and no you haven't lost the plot! Don't expect to much from yourself.. let go of the reigns for a while and make yourself priority number one! I'm a bit of a control freak(to say the least! :smiley: ) so I know what your saying. One of the ladies(sorry did try to scroll back and re-read) had very good advice...Breathe...
Nothing will feel normal for a while But I promise you... you will be you again! I had a Mastectomy 2nd August 2017 and there ain't nothing this biatch can't do!! Before you know it you will be sitting where I am saying something similar to another who has just been diagnosed.
Take care Melony, my thoughts are with you. XX