So pleased to find some older women here, just diagnosed

Hello @Pip47 and welcome! My surgeon told me to wear a post op bra day and night for at least the first five days after surgery to aid healing. I bought a Berlei Y130W post op bra and found it really supportive in the first week or so especially in the car. I have some target wireless soft bras that are fine now that I am further along with the healing. Good luck with the op - I found it very easy.  I didn’t even need pain killers afterwards. As everyone here says it is waiting for those definitive pathology results that is the hardest bit. I kept saying that nothing I did or felt was going to make any difference to what they would be and telling myself that they have very effective treatments for all scenarios now. It did help most of the time. I also look forward to hearing that you are doing well - we 47ers have to stick together! As for your added details @arpie I had a good giggle. I can just picture it happening! 😂