Hi @Julez1958 - that is such a shame. Surely these hospitals (or even the surgeon's office) could alert patients to these small items which make such a big difference ? I did not have a BC nurse but the hospital nurses had the supplies from Zonta so I was fortunate. With a 75km ride home the pillow was a godsend.
My friend, who is about your age, had a double DIEP earlier this year and recovered well.
Take it easy, accept any help offered and use the appliances they will send home with you. Don't be a martyr !
All the best for a quick and comfortable recovery. 💖